I am the Owner and Head Mistress of The Columbus BDSM Club. I have been a lifestyle Domme for over 20 years. Although I am a very sensual Domme, I have a very sadistic side. I love my lifestyle that gives me an influx of willing participants hungry to let me into their fantasies and TAKE CONTROL. It can involve pain, simply just the threat of pain or the withholding of pleasure which can seem almost painful in the moment. But your submission is my main objective, whether I do it with words, a whip or a chastity device.…
Unlike many Mistresses, I engage in body worship aka "queening" (not sex) at my whim. It has absolutely nothing to do with pleasing you, and everything to do with my pleasure, as it should be.
Queening is an ancient art in which a woman presses and rubs her genitalia and/or anus against the tongue, lips, and nose of her subordinate. She classically positions herself in a sitting on or straddling over another's face: facesitting. The first images of this can be seen in ancient Egyptian drawings, but it is known to have been a historic part of ancient Japanese, Chinese, Indian, Medieval European, Victorian and other cultures. Originally a way for upper class women (Queens included) who wished to achieve sexual gratification without becoming pregnant. It was usually the job of male slaves and servants to submit to their mistresses desires, in Japan there were even brothels where male slaves were specially trained in the art of queening. So as you can see, although many Mistresses look down on this practice, as a superior female, it is actually my rightful place to sit on your face. I am just behaving as a true queen would...
In Columbus, the play space is large with 4 themed rooms. It includes a full medical room (The Laboratory), the new sissy room (The White Bedchamber), the classroom for naughty boys (The Classroom) and the main play space ( The Red Sanctuary). Unlike most play spaces, you can shower here and we are in an upscale suburban location. Photos are on the Galleries page!
Once I decide if my second location will be in Indianapolis or St. Louis, I will start building my newest dungeon in that city! This tour will determine where my second dungeon will be....
If some words below baffle you (for you newbies), GOOGLE is an excellent tool. Use it instead of asking me repetitive questions. Activities that I have taken high interest in:
Electrical Play - Violet wands and Tens Units (with insertable plugs as well). I now also have vibrating sounds!
Tease & Denial (chastity/ key holding) / EDGING!! - I can’t express enough how much the control over your pleasure pleases me to no end! I have integrated edging into every session of every kind that I offer. Will never get enough….
Corporal punishment / Disciplinarian- From a very young age, I have had a fixation with asses and spanking them. Whips, crops, floggers, paddles, caning…I would say OTK spanking/paddling is a favorite. I have wooden paddles of many sizes. I have close to one hundred paddles, floggers, and whips. One of My Very Favorite Roles, every one of you deserves a bare bottom spanking, boys are generally rotten to the core. I am here to teach you manners, and show you lessons must be learned!
Strap Play / Pegging
Medical Play (includes Sounding)
Smothering / Queening
Sissification/Cross dressing – The White Bed Chamber is just for you. Heels, wigs, makeup, lingerie, pretty panties, and dresses all for you. I even have cross dressing silicone breasts to give you true feminine form. Let’s bring out the girlie sissy in you, and make the alpha disappear as I take over.... CBT, Nipple Torture, Ball Busting – I enjoy these IMMENSELY!!!
Bondage, Mummification & Abandonment - I love restraining my sissies and sluts, I love abandoning them even more. Your control withers away with each restraint and knot tied. Straight jacket anyone?
Body Worship – Let’s just say when I get turned on by your enslavement, I sometimes take advantage… foot and ass worship are favorites….
Cuckold / Forced Bi – enough said… (we now have a wall of glory holes! )
Humiliation/Verbal Abuse - Bring your tiny cock/oversized clit to my dungeon and be prepared to eat every drop of fluid that cums from it dirty slut..... Forced Masturbation Tickle Torture Domestic TrainingForced Waxing/Shaving Puppy/Pony/Pet Training Face Slapping/Spitting Temperature Play Sensory Deprivation Fisting Giantess (macrophilia) Golden Shower (extra 50 tribute due to prep and cleanup) Wrestling